Introvert Fun

 

The types of activities that are fun for introverts differ from those of extroverts. Fun for introverts is not the type of fun that includes high-fiving and jubilant happiness. It's rarely loud, in fact, an introvert may not even have a smile on their face. More than likely, their facial expression and demeanor will probably be showing signs of deep concentration or peacefulness.

In western societies, the concept of fun has been defined and claimed by extroverts. 

• Fun is participating in risky behavior like skydiving or racing.
• Fun is breaking the rules.
• Fun is a week filled with socializing and parties. 

Extroverts need the adrenaline rush of living life at full throttle. Give your all, all the time. The need for external stimulation is just a part of their DNA.

For most introverts, fun is quiet, focused and often experienced in solitude. It's frequently determined by our surrounding environment like a park or in our backyard under a shade tree where we can concentrate and focus on our internal thoughts, plans and relationships. Other activities that are fun for introverts are:

• Walking with a friend or spouse
• Reading
• Driving for several hours on a highway that isn't crowded
• Gardening
• Working on a puzzle
• Going to a coffee shop with a friend to catch up and have a few laughs
• Fishing
• Going to a matinée at a movie theater
• People watching at a park
• Knitting
• Sewing
• Writing
• Woodworking
• Binge-watching your favorite TV show
• Going to a gallery or museum 

Many introverts enjoy getting up early or going to bed late so they can enjoy the peaceful serenity in their home. Introverts don't need company to keep them entertained or mentally energized.

It's time for introverts to claim our type of fun ... the type of fun that brings us happiness, pleasure, fulfillment and a calm sense of purpose.

Let's not let others tell us we don't know how to have fun!